Before Your Baby Is Born
- Setting Up for Success: Ten Tips to Prepare for Breastfeeding
- Breastfeeding: 15 Ways New Dads can Help
- What to Bring with you to the Hospital
- What is Colostrum?
- Breastfeeding: The First Few Hours
- Breastfeeding: The First Three Days
- How your breasts will change during pregnancy and nursing
- Breastfeeding: What is a Latch?
- Breastfeeding: How to Position your Baby
- Breastfeeding: How to Hold your Breast
- Breastfeeding: How to Position Yourself
- Breastfeeding Holds: Cross-Cradle, Football Hold, Cradle, Side-Lying
- Breastfeeding: How to Know When Baby is Hungry (Rooting Reflex)
The First Six Weeks
- Breastfeeding: The First Six Weeks
- Breastfeeding and Nutrition: What should I eat while breastfeeding?
- Breastfeeding: Where to Find Support
- Breastfeeding: How to Latch
- Breastfeeding: What a Good Latch Feels Like
- Breastfeeding: How to Know if you Have a Good Deep Latch
- Care Plan: What to do if Your Baby Won’t Latch
- Care Plan: How to Use a Nipple Shield
- Breastfeeding: How Your Baby Gets the Milk Out of Your Breast
- Breastfeeding: How Often do I Breastfeed?
- Breastfeeding: How to Learn Baby's Feeding Cues
- Breastfeeding: How Long Should a Feeding Take?
- Care Plan: What if Early Breastfeeding is Not Going Perfectly?
- Breastfeeding: How do I Know Baby is Getting Enough at Each Feeding?
- Breastfeeding: How to Breastfeed a Sleepy Baby
- Care Plan: What to Do if Your Baby is Not Getting Enough at Each Feeding
- Breastfeeding: Waking Your Baby to Eat: When do I Stop?
- Breastfeeding: How to Know Baby is Getting Enough Overall - Diapers
- Breastfeeding: How to Know Baby is Getting Enough Overall - Weight Gain
- Breastfeeding: How to Know Baby is Getting Enough Overall - Infant Behavior
- Care Plan: What to Do if Your Baby is Not Getting Enough Overall
- Care Plan: Engorgement
- Care Plan: Sore Nipples
Finding Your Breastfeeding Rhythm
- Care Plan: How to Increase Your Milk Supply
- Increasing Your Milk Supply: What to Expect When Following the Care Plan
- Effective Feeding: What is it?
- Increasing Your Milk Supply: Why the Care Plan Will Work
- Effective Feeding: How to Identify Effective Feeding
- Effective Feeding: The Difference Between a Suck and a Swallow
- Effective Feeding: How to Ensure Effective Feeding
- Breastfeeding: Milk Flow - The Difference Between Breast and Bottle
- Breastfeeding: How Milk Supply Affects Your Flow Rate
- Care Plan: How to Fix Your Milk Flow and Increase Your Milk Supply
- Breastfeeding: Why Your Baby May Not Be Getting Enough
- Breastfeeding: What Am I Supplementing With?
- Plugged Ducts
- Mastitis
- Demystifying Cluster Feeding: What’s Normal...What’s Not
Common Challenges
- Getting Breastfeeding Support from Mom
- Care Plan: How to Increase Your Milk Supply
- Care Plan: What to do if Your Baby Won’t Latch
- Care Plan: Engorgement
- Care Plan: Sore Nipples
- Care Plan: How to Use a Nipple Shield
- What to Expect When Following the Care Plan to Increase Supply
- Care Plan: What to Do if Your Baby is Not Getting Enough at Each Feeding
- Care Plan: What to Do if Your Baby is Not Getting Enough Overall
- Why Your Baby May Not Be Getting Enough at the Breast
- Care Plan: Plugged Ducts
- Care Plan: Mastitis
- Care Plan: Yeast
- Care Plan: What if Early Breastfeeding is Not Going Perfectly?
Breastfeeding and the Working Mom
The Man Behind The Milk
Resource Library
Our Experts
Breastfeeding: How Your Baby Gets the Milk Out of Your Breast
Babies have one action in common: the urge to suck. Some women might feel that a baby's natural ability to suck means she'll know how to breastfeed right away too. Yes, sucking is a natural motion, and your baby will do it automatically once she's on the breast, but she'll need you to guide her to the best place on the breast to access the most milk and to not cause you any discomfort. Plus, while sucking is important and comforting for your baby, what you really want to ensure is that she's drinking and swallowing. Her placement for a deep latch helps tremendously with this.
So how does your baby drink and draw the milk out of your breast? Believe it or not, she does most of the work during nursing. Of course when you have a let-down, your body helps her along with the free-flowing milk, but for the most part it's her sucking action that draws the milk from your breast.
How your baby draws milk from your breast
- The milk gathers in the "sinus" areas of the milk ducts in your breasts, which are behind the areola, filling up between feedings. The sinuses are flexible areas of the milk ducts and located just behind the areola. During let-down and nursing sessions, these expandable areas fill with milk.
- To capture all of the milk, and especially the milk in these storage areas, your baby needs to open wide and take a big mouthful of your breast, as opposed to sucking on just the tip of your breast, or the nipple, like she would suck on just the tip of a bottle. If she's sucking only on the tip, she probably isn't feeding effectively—and she might be causing pain for you. A good latch has her opening her mouth wide, reaching out her lower jaw and tongue and allowing you to put her mouth deeply around your nipple and areola to form a seal.
- Your baby then uses her tongue to "milk" your breast. The wave-like muscular motions of her tongue and the pressure from her jaw help create suction on the sinus area of the ducts. This is what causes the milk to flow from your breast and into her mouth. It's why you want a good, deep latch, because the more breast tissue your baby has in her mouth near her tongue, the more milk she'll be able to access.
- When the milk flows from your breast, it's coming out of about 9 to 15 nipple pores. Picture water flowing from a showerhead rather than from a hose, which is more like a bottle's nipple with one hole.
As your baby gets older, her sucking will become faster, stronger and more efficient.
Tips for success
- Make sure your baby is latched on deeply to access the most milk and make you the most comfortable.
- To help prevent discomfort, break the latch with your finger before taking your baby off your breast.
- You can help the milk flow by compressing your breast to squeeze more milk into your baby's mouth. This is especially good for newborns, who often fall asleep while nursing.
Source: Heather Kelly is an International Board Certified Lactation Consultant (IBCLC) who also sits on the Bravado Breastfeeding Information Council Heather has been practicing in New York City since 2001.








